Number One Reason NOT to Set a Goal

Hi Hero!

This is SO important.

The number one reason NOT to set a goal or dream: to finally be enough in some way.

In your mind, these thoughts will sound like: “When I ________, I’ll finally be or feel successful, happy, fulfilled, worthy, or ENOUGH.”

Finally being or feeling enough is not a good reason to set a goal because…

YOU ARE ENOUGH NOW, YOU ALWAYS HAVE BEEN, AND YOU ALWAYS WILL BE.

When you really believe this truth, you will be able to reach for goals and dreams from an abundance of your unique magic. This is because, you will know that your unique magic is the most amazing, beautiful thing on the planet and it is enough. Your love for it will help it grow and help you express it.

When we don’t believe in our magic and we are trying to create so that we can feel like enough, we end up reaching from a place of scarcity. We can’t access nearly as much of our amazing magic from scarcity.

I promise.

If you’re working on a goal or dream, be honest and ask yourself why you are trying to achieve that dream. If the answer is so that you can feel like enough I highly recommend sitting down with a journal and asking yourself one or all of the following:
- Do I believe I am enough now?
- If no, why not?
- What do I believe about myself now?
- Do these beliefs serve me, are they creating what I want in my life?
- What else would I need to believe to believe that I am enough?

Of course, approach this work with your safety and well-being in mind. If it becomes overwhelming, counseling or coaching can be so helpful.

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